But it gave me the impression that she didn't consider it harassment we end the discussion in agreement that I handled it how any man would handle it. Two days later I'm coming to bed late like 2 a.m as I was finishing up some work I hear her on the phone with somebody kind of chuckling this is not normal told me it was her mom and had something to do with our. Kid's birthday which I didn't buy but at this point I've begun playing stupid so I can observe the situation from a place where she feels comfortable. The next day she is crying again and at this point I've really had it she's been unstable for two weeks now when I asked her if this is about max again she says she tried to call and apologize for not handling the situation herself. And that he still isn't talking to her I admit it I snapped I told her that either he was abusing her or she was cheating on me and I caught them on the couch tonight obviously I wanted a believer.
But I'm not a I'm essentially laying here with my finger on the button waiting for some solid truth because if this is what it's feeling more and more like I'm about to go 95 000 megaton nuclear on the both of them sorry for the. Length I just don't know what I can do from here on out. Edit: Thanks for all the input. She goes to work in six hours I will apologize for my outburst and ask her to sit down with me and talk tonight it's sunday and our son typically stays the night with my parents every other sunday I'm not proud of it. But I feel it's in my best interest to do a snooping if I find nothing we will discuss what happened when it started what I can do to help her and what we ought to do moving forward I love her and the idea that.
She is being harassed by somebody who is supposed to love her breaks my heart however if I do find something sorted or learned that she was complicit in any way I am done with the relationship that instant I don't believe in marriage counseling and. Instances of infidelity and even if I did incest there's no way I could look at her the same again we'll update. Update One. So I didn't sleep at all last night and when she woke up I made breakfast I told her I shouldn't have blown up and that we should probably sit down tonight and talk about things she agreed like she wasn't even upset to begin with. And she said she knew she had probably been acting badly I told her that the sort of harassment she was dealing with was infinitely more difficult because he is a member of the family she just seemed to agree with me I wasn't going to.