Also saw my ex openly hated and despised by her family for her role in the affair they'd been blaming him for it and acting as though max was a predator that had been molesting her or abusing her until he died and. Then the blame got shifted to her she's no longer welcome at family gatherings and the only people she speaks to is her own parents and I think the only reason they haven't disowned her is. Because of my former stepson my ex-wife had been letting me continue to see my stepson after we split my relationship with sherry was outed around the time of max's death and this. Ultimately led to her fighting me over it it still baffles my mind that even after I caught her in 10 year long affair she had the audacity to act as though me seeing another woman with some sort of crime worth taking away the son. I had raised since he was only a few months old ultimately though I decided on my own to walk away from the entire situation as I felt like our constant fighting and my lack of legal authority over him would lead him to be even.
More unhappy and traumatized than if I just left those of you following me or reading the comments of other posts will know that sherry and I have relocated to her home state where I've started a new job and we're currently renting a home we. Are also both in therapy individual and we're being counseled together we both understand that a lot can go wrong with the relationships that form the way ours did and we both want to work on communication and growing with one another. So we can better navigate the tough times when they come we're both survivors of infidelity the story of how we fell in love can never be a cute story to tell the kids one thing that I learned about my marriage through therapy is just. How much my own parents terrible marriage has affected me my dad is a good guy a loving father and my mother is a wonderful woman but their relationship is a mess my ex-wife and I never really fought or got into huge fights. Now kid living in a home with a loveless marriage I always knew when things were bad the loud arguments and the yelling and what have you when things were quiet things were good it wasn't happy it wasn't healthy.