Though we're committing an affair ourselves I've discussed the troubles over being a divorced stepdad and she's offered me her take on it she told me that were she in my position she would all she could to get as far away from that crazy family. As possible because I have the option to she lamented the fact that no matter what happens because of max she'll be stuck around both he and my soon-to-be ex probably for the rest of her life her suggestion to me is pretty much the conclusion. I've come to is not to make any more rash decisions until after I talk with my therapist two weeks from now I went back to my apartment. Today and was surprised to find just how much stuff my ex has already moved out of there a little depressing seeing it looking that empty but it was. Also kind of a relief to know that she is leaving without a fight my son is with his grandparents now so the ex and I were only and decided to have a cup of coffee and chat before talking about how we're going to divide.
Up some of the more mutually owned things things were pretty polite all things considered for sherry's sake I figured I'd ask if max had been in contact with her because he's been a ghost for the last three days and he really didn't leave sherry. Anything for diapers or food max's folks are helping her and I will where I can anyway she shows me her phone and she's got four missed calls from him and texts wanting to talk she says that she tried to talk him into chilling out. And facing the family because he'll have to eventually anyway and from the sounds of it he's probably going to run listen to bx. Then asks how sherry is holding up and that she hears from her aunt I've been around a lot not that I need to but I explain how we're trying to support each other since we're going through it together and that sherry is obviously pretty. Beat up about all this in the middle of this she's point blank says whatever you're doing with her is none of my business but I'm not stupid the weirdness of being indirectly accused of an affair by the woman who cheated on me is pretty.
Rich I want her to tell her off but at the risk of this because issues with the divorce my only response to it was to redirect the conversation back to dividing up our stuff down to a tv. But she also took these ugly couches thank god I didn't want to be the one dragging them to the curb thanks for the support folks but that's pretty much all that's going on with me a lot of internal arguments doubt and division. But at the end of the day for now I've got a sweetheart keeping me propped up while I'm not propping her up. Update Six. Get out your reading glasses it's going to be a long one it's been nearly three weeks since my d-day and more than a month since my life began to radically change I never really discussed what sort of order my marriage was in in any.