I was talking to a lawyer that I could never in my wildest dreams ever afford to even talk to bob has always been a huge nerd and was bullied a lot he told me not to worry about the bill he would cover it he was happy to finally be able to repay me for the beatings. I frequently took for him interfering with his bullies frank is a teacher in a private school for kids and is married with seven children yes that's right seven my kids just love him too and the rest of his family to death frank has been making sure my kids are okay and cared for while I get back on my feet and get my ducks in a row. Yesterday was a very hectic day it started with an std screening early in the morning the gave me chlamydia another screen in six months my self-pity party switched to pure effing anger when I found out that's it for me gloves off full custody. I will give her nothing if I can get away with it the lawyer managed to track down the ex-husband of my wife's feminist friends that bragged about how she screwed him over it was apparently very easy via the court documents. I wouldn't have even thought about that I talked to him on whatsapp he thanked me a lot but he.
Also told me about everything this heartbeat did to him now I know what to expect from my soon-to-be ex-wife it was sickening I was ready for a fight. After our chat I am preparing for war it was heartbreaking hearing how he had been homeless and how he had hardly seen his kids in four years all based on the ex-wives lies. I accept how I am at a disadvantage as a man in the court system I will make sure I have tons of evidence my lawyer suggested a preemptive strike via restraining order due to her negative and aggressive comments about males in general especially for our son's sake growing up in a household with an openly anti-male parental figure is obviously very damaging so I am going for full custody. I told the lawyer to go ahead she expects her to be served the restraining order. Today I had a call with my suny ex-wife on zoom keep in mind that she hadn't reached out to me at all since she showed up at the door to argue with my dad she hasn't reached out to the kids or anyone else either so it's not like she cares about any of us the call was absolutely bizarre she was all made up with a massive cleavage it was obvious she was trying to look her absolute best.
I haven't seen her that dolled up for years throughout the entire conversation she tried to bait me into a fight to get me angry I managed to keep cool my lawyer had told me what to ask for apparently it's very positive if attempts are made for an amicable divorce prior to filing for a contested divorce. I was recording it I even told her I was still soon to be ex-wife didn't disappoint she started out with this absurd statement about how there are two types of penises one that is roughly the same size whether it's erect or not and the other type that shrinks and grows based on whether it's erect or not what in the actual who opens a call with her husband like that then she mused about how she was looking forward to the end of the current restrictions so she could go out and investigate this more in person. I simply responded that I wasn't interested in her hobbies that I was only interested in discussing our divorce she got openly hostile when I didn't take the bait and get angry like she wanted. At one point she told me she was going to the bathroom and muted herself then I watched as she conferred with her friends about what she could do with me she cursed me out for nothing more than being a man several times throughout the call. I still had this strange feeling that she was seeing this as some form of game that she was in control and that I had no other option than to put up and shut up and give into anything she wants we made zero progress on our actual divorce so I concluded that okay fine.