Now I just got to find the money I got a plan and bob offered to front me the entire mount if need be I. Still don't feel like this is real I fully expect her to pull here is my aggressive lawyer and I am accusing you of molesting the kids in domestic abuse out of her hat lawyer told me to keep a very low profile pay for everything. I normally pay for and don't rock the boat in any way at all the advice is don't talk to anyone we both know just sit. Still and wait don't respond to anything basically zero initiative until the hearing so now all I need to do is to be patient and hope for the best. Update Four.
So yesterday was the hearing I'm basically divorced it will take four to six months for the paperwork to be official but at this point there is basically nothing anyone can do to change the outcome the only option is if me and my wife together stop it I'm so effing tired. I haven't slept in I don't know how many days so if I'm a bit all over the place I'm sorry I just need to get this all out. I need to vent hopefully I can get some sleep after I type it out my awesome lawyer got me an early hearing just 12 days after submitting the paperwork no doubt she called in some favors on this one I'm getting off track for the weekend up until. Today has been insane friday morning a whole bunch of police officers knocked at my door with a warrant to search the house I was very confused. I was worried about the kids so I asked if I could bring the kids outside while they did their search thankfully they agreed to that they didn't really tell me much but I did get a copy of the warrant.