Still needs to go to court to make it permanent but the odds are really good at this point everybody thinks henrietta will have to serve time if her friend doesn't make it probably serious time after that he will try for child support and compensation for all the crap henrietta did he isn't expecting much on this though and to be honest. I think he doesn't want to waste his time fighting in court he wants to be with his kids and make sure they have a good life it's pretty clear henrietta has been very neglectful toward them bob has been a champ and set henry up in a rental apartment through a friend. I have come to realize that I know practically nothing about bob's private or professional life I intend to remedy that anyway I'm off track again henrietta was at the wheel when she drove off the road and into a house they were all pretty banged up and due to the situation the alcohol and the drugs search warrants were issued for everyone's residence x is. Still registered with her residence at my house I decided on sunday that I am selling this house and moving away asap I'm afraid this will probably happen again on sunday. I get a call from her parents their house got searched as well they had visited their daughter in jail on saturday and they no longer trust anything she tells them.
Long story short they came over to talk on sunday and it turns out she has been lying to them about everything the night she has been out partying and cheating she told them that she was staying with me and we were trying to work things out they had no idea what was actually going on or what she has done to me and the kids they knew she cheated but they believed it was a one-time drunken mistake that's basically what she told them on monday my wife calls me to try to get me to post bail it's fifteen thousand dollars and her parents have already told her no after talking to my lawyer she made some papers that the bail is subtracted from the settlement until she shows up in court and the bail is released the agreement included her mother as a custodial of the remaining amount my lawyer didn't want my wife to have any excuse for not attending the hearing that's why she wanted me to get her out x didn't really have a choice and she signed she was released monday afternoon from what her parents tell me she refused to comply with the terms they had for her to continue living there terms like stop doing drugs commit to rehab open everything policy drop the bad friends etc she apparently left their house on tuesday to stay with some of her new friends she didn't show for the hearing and after showing the judge everything including the events over the weekend. I won full custody the settlement is according to the agreement we made it was quick only 30 minutes it will take four to six months to go through the paper mill but in reality it's done there isn't really anything that can be done to stop this. Now that brings us to today I wasn't able to sleep everybody was congratulating me and treating me like I had some major victory but it sure as hell doesn't feel like I won anything this is just pain. I still love my wife I know it's over and there's absolutely no way back still she was my best friend my soul mate up until recently and even though I feel my love for her has been mortally wounded it's. Still there and it hurts like a mother ever there are no winners in this I lose my wife loses my kids lose I don't really have the words it feels like I am being asked to celebrate that I have lost both my legs but because I took action one of my legs could be cut below the knee while the other.