My wife 37 female got a new job four and a half months ago she also made some new friends I 36 male didn't really like them they were all hardcore feminists professional victim social justice warrior types they're women who will yell at you for opening the door for them or not opening the door for them you can't win either way in the beginning. I sort of laughed it off but during the last two months I noticed some disturbing changes with my wife we have been married for 11 years and have two kids 10 female and 8 male it got worse and worse she would accuse me of all kinds of nonsense like I was born evil because men suppress women historically say what whatever. I did for her things she would normally appreciate was all of a sudden reasons to have a fight it was all nonsense I would try to be patient these arguments would usually end with me saying something like but I haven't done anything bad towards you the only thing. I am guilty of is loving you it would usually send her murmuring then. The next day she would be back trying the same thing again with slightly different arguments.
Then about five weeks ago I got this sharp gut feeling that something was seriously wrong she came back late at night without telling me she would be back late. I couldn't reach her phone she was rather drunk and she acted distant and cold. The next day she would just be dismissive and tell me I was being controlling that I read too much into things this happened a few more times. I tried to snoop on her phone but didn't manage to find anything definite but I suspected she had deleted a lot of her messages I did find a thread with one of her new friends they were discussing how she would approach me asking for an open relationship. I immediately knew what my instincts were telling me she was cheating in the thread my wife said she would talk to me about it on what is.