I didn't argue back I hardly said a word actually I just packed her stuff while she circled yelling at me I ended up at the front door where. I just stood silently until she ran out of steam in the end she reluctantly went to her parents house on her way down the stairs. I told her she was single now so she could do whatever she wanted I wasn't controlling her anymore my lawyer would be in touch in january when she turned to respond. I just slammed and locked the door I later watched as she discussed it with her friends they were telling her how strong she was demanding what she was entitled to how she deserved better than me that it was empty threats from my side that I wouldn't go through with it you want to bet what really worried me was how they told her that if needed she could just accuse me of domestic abuse one of them explained how she had screwed over her ex-husband and taken everything from him by accusing him of abuse. I have ordered cameras to put up at my house now I know now I have to record everything I just couldn't believe what I was seeing.
I have never even threatened her in any way then she started messaging her a fair partner to meet up they agreed to meet at a hotel. I was absolutely stunned I went online trying to find the affair partner's wife it didn't take long I got her to accept me as a friend on facebook and I told her everything including the ongoing activity at the hotel she thanked me and hung up. A few hours later I got a video from her she went to the motel and confronted them from the screaming this wasn't the first time her husband had cheated you effing aho you did this to me again to the kids again. I told you we were over if you ever did this again you beep she walked into the room and filmed my wife getting dressed on the edge of the bed. I threw up when I saw that the first time the fair partner's wife slapped her and cursed her out I sent a message to my wife telling her that I saw the video from the hotel and that I never want her near me ever again it's like she sees our interaction as some sort of pissing competition where she in her mind is winning she's totally delusional.
I can't understand any of it it's like she isn't connected to reality like she doesn't really understand that we are divorcing I logged into my wife's family whatsapp group and informed them that we are divorcing due to her infidelity. I thank them for making me feel welcome and part of the family before disconnecting from the group I have received a few calls and messages from her side but I haven't read them or responded. I just don't have the energy for it I called my parents and told them everything my father messaged my wife that she wouldn't be welcomed for christmas. I met my parents now and I have talked to my boss he has given me time off until january to sort my things out I have been monitoring my wife's increasingly frantic discussions with her new friends. I don't think it's dawned on my wife that she has lost her family that her marriage is over and that her new friends and her affair partner don't really give a crap about her she has sent me many messages and showed up at my parents house demanding to be allowed to celebrate christmas with us my father threatened to call the police if she didn't leave.