Would be a different story but no? Two years is just a slap in the face I have gone to a few therapy sessions with her because I'm not a monster and still. Love her one session was very good it made me understand that my wife is actually remorseful. She has not been perfect with how she handled the fallout of her affair but she has been trying pretty darn hard second session was a mess of her upset at me for continuously contacting the boss's wife. And her being afraid of a revenge affair it was the angriest I ever was through this whole mess and we did argue.
A great deal later because I refused to. Do what she wanted? Which is no contact with the boss's wife that was resolved when I promised her that there will be no revenge or affair. I know I don't owe her anything but she's still my wife until our divorce and I still want to hold true to my commitments I have been going to a few. More sessions with her just to see her progress yes this therapist is an individual and marriage therapist no I'm not going to these sessions because deep down I want to save our marriage.
I want to see my wife's progress myself participate if I have to after the divorce I will step away gracefully the boss's wife is still leaving her husband her husband is still fighting. Her on the divorce she is as adamant as I am and I will admit we do confide in each other when we have low days. I still do not see any affair happening we are just on friendly terms with each other that's all she is a strong and independent woman who takes no bull crap. From anyone my kids are fine they know just because we're divorcing doesn't mean we love them any less. They don't want a divorce but understand.
Why it's necessary for us in an? Age-appropriate manner my wife doesn't work at the advertisement company anymore she works elsewhere she resigned shortly after I served her she has been strictly no contact with her former boss. According to her she reached out on forums to get help on saving the marriage and used that advice I've been reading a lot here and at first I didn't understand why people. Stayed with adulterers but after seeing my wife work her butt off to be a better person. I can see the temptation she's not a monster she's just flawed and made horrible choices which she's learning to be better from she has offered me everything under the sun to be given another chance.
I'm not so sure I have it in me the closer divorce comes to being final the more at peace I feel we recently had. A long discussion of her asking to have a chance after divorce she has offered a post nup I was not completely opposed to it actually but it would be a very very long road. For her to travel for me to even consider it a possibility she seems quite willing but I don't see. How that would benefit any of us? To be honest a huge part of me wants this divorce out of a fleeting sense of justice it's the only justice I can get without lowering myself to an adulterer.