Marital problems he gave me good advice I thought he was a swell guy anyway back to the discovery I had grown emotionally tired from wife's demands to better myself or the marriage was done. I was honestly shocked with her attitude because before all this I thought we had a great marriage so one night she was busy laughing and giggling while texting someone. I was next to her in bed and was curious the moment I leaned my head to take a peek. She viciously pulled away from me she was angry instantly asking me what I was doing I told her I wanted to see what the joke was and she told me it was none of my business and retreated to the bathroom. I think that's the day when I knew deep down that there was an affair of sorts going on I did not have proof though I made the mistake of asking her directly the next day she was furious.
And denied any wrongdoing I did not have the access to her phone but I wanted the truth terribly. I asked for her phone and she refused only later during the night did she grudgingly give me the phone almost every text message she sent to specific people were deleted. I could tell because some conversations seemed inconsistent and others downright ridiculous I gave her the phone back and we did not speak of it until a month later when I was able to get a buddy on it to. Check the phone and recover deleted texts my wife had gotten another phone prior and hardly used the one she handed to me. Some texts were recovered and it was through bits and pieces that I finally had proof that there was an affair going on and you already guessed it with her boss.
I just knew if I confronted her then and there she would find some way to weasel out of it so I bid my time. I was a wreck though all I could think about is how it was going to affect the kids the situation was horrible and I cried in front of my buddy. I still did not want to give up the marriage so three days later I bought. How to help your spouse heal from an? Affair it's okay if you're shaking your head I started reading hoping that if I gave.
It to my wife she would stop this nonsense I wanted my wife back and I wanted to save the marriage. I had planned on talking to her on that saturday to work things out but she had told me they had an emergency at work and not to wait up on her of course I contacted the workplace on. The day to confirm the story she gave me and received no answer they were not open on saturdays I tried. Her phone but no answer she came back home at two in the morning on sunday and immediately showered and then came to bed. I asked why she was late and she dodged the question by saying that she already told me not to wait for her I was sick of this I did not give her the book I brought.
I was suffering and she didn't care she saw me suffering and didn't care I contacted her boss's wife to find out from her if she knew anything. I was so desperate for stability and to this day I don't regret doing that she was as shocked as I was when finding. Out she wanted to confront her husband but I told her he will probably lie and try to hide it better like my wife did. We met at her house to discuss what was going on and I gave her the little proof. That we had she wanted more evidence so we both decided to gather evidence on each of our sides and compare them.