A bit of a background I male 43 and my significant other female 40 have been married for 16 years. We have two kids a 14 year old daughter and a nine-year-old son our marriage was very rocky in the beginning but we made it through those. Tough years and had come out much better from it we married young so maturity wasn't all there yet but we knew he loved each other and could conquer any obstacle that comes. Between our marriage I'm still not sure whether this was wishful thinking anyway my wife is a manager of a very big advertisement company for three. Years and I'm in engineering seven years both of our jobs pay well and gave our family a pretty good lifestyle we were a very tight-knit.
Family we always make sure as parents that we were there for our kids to create great memories no matter how busy we got we always made. Time for our kids honestly I consider myself a good dad and husband I messed up sometimes when it came to my wife but I did anything for this woman and it honestly shocked me to my core. When I found out that she was in a long-term affair which brings me to discovery wife was acting distant in fact the last two years before this. One were the hardest she just didn't seem to like anything I. Did she kept comparing me to her boss?
Yes I know now and would always tell me. How he would handle this or that? Can't read her mind well her boss can don't take initiative to take her out on dates and make her feel special well her boss. Does that for his wife why was I so immature I would ask what she wanted me to do to spice up our love life her answer? Usually is don't ask you need to already know and do it so I researched bought books you know since I was clueless someone else had to have the answer.
Anything I attempted was met with either half-hearted appreciation or bitter disappointment my wife was never like this in the years I've known her so I thought that inability to make her happy was something I seriously needed to fix. Little did I know it wasn't me who was doing the fixing the entire time we were very close to her boss and his wife they also have kids and the kids loved each other we brought. Them to our barbecues family outings to the park game days at the arcade they have been to our house numerous times and we've been to theirs. It's no surprise that we became close I. Would confide in her boss about our?