Caught my wife cheating on me and I know exactly when it started. I caught my wife with a fair partner in our bed and I kicked him out of my house oh boy, this is long. Me 44 male and my soon to be X female 39 been married for 11 years no kids we were a pretty chubby couple until two years ago when I had a blood test and it came out that I was prone to Contracting diabetes gout and hypertension it really scared me and we both bit by bit started to have a very healthy life I went from 117 to 85 kilograms and my wife let's call her Jane from 83 to 65 kilograms we felt great and needless to say I never developed those diseases. We attended to a gym almost daily in the afternoon where a fair partner worked as a coach let's call him Baldi when my wife started getting in shape I noticed most guys turned to see her I felt so proud of her she is fairly busty and she has magnificent legs of course Baldi. Wasn't the exception I noticed Baldi likes to check women's butts I've seen him doing it several times he likes to show off how ripped he is when Jane and I were regulars at the gym I noticed she was enjoying the attention she got from Men. Once we were using elliptical machines in front of them there is a cable machine baldy took off his T-shirt and started doing crossovers I turned to Jane with my face of can you believe this guy but she was staring at him and she wet her lips I saw Baldi and I swear.
He was grinning I felt crushed I mean I was getting in shape but I am not as muscular and fit as he is when we were driving home I made a comment about Baldi showing off and Jane said really I didn't notice I told her you were staring she said I don't remember I must have been thinking about something else. I Shrugged it off and kept driving but from there on I noticed they were talking more frequently at the gym. Some Weeks Later, Jane was doing squats using the smith machine suddenly Baldi went to help her isn't he nice he is grabbing her by the waist and I got angry she finished the first set and I got there and told him in a knot a nice way I got it from here baldy just smiled and told me no problem buddy he calls everybody buddy and walked off. Jane knows me very well and when she heard my Angry tone she said oh my God op I told her we'll disgust is at home at home drama blew up she called me immature and jealous I told her I noticed he was trying to get into her pants but she said that she knows that but she would never cheat on me I said then why did she let him touch her and she said she didn't want to be rude. About an hour later arguing we agreed to change gems so we went to another place to do exercises but Jane was resentful at me in the following months her argument was that I don't trust her on the third month after we changed gyms.
A very good opportunity opened up my job but in the afternoon we discussed it and I took it and we had to attend the gym at different hours I went in the morning and Jane in the afternoon this is when it all went South Jane's resentment increased and we barely speak I sent her messages telling her about my day that I miss her memes but she rarely replied or just yes okay same here. I was very worried and proposed couples therapy she said I was the one who needed therapy because I'm the one with trust issues I agreed I was so desperate to fix our marriage that I even thought it was all my fault so in the following year 2022 I went to therapy but Jane's Behavior didn't change we weren't intimate anymore she never was in the mood I snooped to her phone but didn't find anything out of the ordinary I looked into her car for a second phone nothing I checked her phone again to see her map history it only showed me House Work House Gym house whenever I tried to talk to her she said she just feels that she's having a 40s phase it'll pass I never had any evidence of cheating so I continued working and worrying. We live in a condo the security guard a very cheerful man called Mr P greeted me. We chat a lot he was touching his shoulder and he told me yesterday he had to move a heavy sofa and he has some pain today I was sympathetic and he dropped the bomb maybe you can arrange a meeting with your misogist I told him who he said the guy who came yesterday to massage Mrs. Jane it took me a second to process this I told him do you have a video of him I think he noticed I was pale and hurried to show me guess who Baldi of course he has come over a few times to massage my wife I took the day off and started investigating I asked a co-worker for his car and in the afternoon I followed.