She's always been this way and we've always done those things my girlfriend who we have been with for nine months has met haley three times each time has ended in a catastrophic fight. Seriously we've broken up twice because of them where I have somehow hurt her feelings by hanging out with my sister when she is visiting. My girlfriend said she feels like we are purposely avoiding her when we really have just already made plans to hang out with her she wants to be with us for the whole weekend. Well my girlfriend said that ultimately my sister is weirdly obsessed with me she said it is weird that we spent the weekend hanging out and drinking coffee sightseeing going to parking decks or parks to take pictures.
Both wearing flannels and a beanie in other words stressing alike whatever it was all something a couple would do but not siblings. I asked her if it would be any different if instead of my sister it was a brother or parent she basically came to the conclusion. That my sister is so obsessed with me that she has caused my previous two relationships to end and that she is trying to end. My current one because she doesn't want to compete for my attention with another girl.
Thoughts it's a lot to take in it should be said that my girlfriend suffers from bad anxiety and ocd which I think definitely heightens tension because of how. She reacts and speaks to me I was truly just trying to enjoy a weekend with my sister visiting I made plans to hang out with my girlfriend and sister and we even surprised. Her at her job one night but my girlfriend has convinced herself that the reality is that my sister hates her and wants nothing to do with her so he purposefully excluded. Her all weekend this put her in a horrible mood all weekend picking fights over texts and acting pissy and weird in front of my sister uh.