I then told her that even if we didn't have sex I wouldn't run off to be with some younger woman she again cried into my shoulder and said she can't believe that I'd. Still want her after a decade I assured her again that she is the only person I want for the rest of my life. As of right now I'm encouraging her to get therapy for herself and we're going to try a little couples counseling I don't think this is much of a roadblock in our relationship but it couldn't hurt to look. Into professional help. My ex 28 year old male tried to sabotage my 24 year old female new relationship I feel weird about it so.
Long story short me and my ex were together for almost 4 years I loved him very much but our relationship was very toxic. I knew it for a long time towards the end we got a bit better we went on a vacation. Then planned on moving in together but the toxic behavior still continued he would hang up on me when he felt get mad at me ignore me and lastly. He blocked me on the phone cussed me out and said to lose his number in anyone's head that means he broke up with me at that point. I was done how could I get an apartment with someone who acts like that even if I love them I want to make sure home life is more peaceful than dramatic so I did as he asked I.
Lost his number well I just kept him blocked. Months later me and a very good friend of mine actually got together and our relationship is so different we've been friends for a long time and I feel mostly happy with him. Well two days after we got together my ex suddenly appeared from his mother's facebook account telling me goodbye and long paragraphs about how. He loves me I leave my house and apparently my ex came to my house to drop off everything I ever bought in so dramatic obviously. I would have wanted him to throw them out himself or keep them it was pretty cool stuff.
After that I messaged him back telling him my peace and goodbye. Then a couple days later his friend calls me and says he's doing really bad not eating and all that I'm very empathetic so I felt bad and called him to check up. We talked and I ended up seeing him and speaking in person he told me he wanted me back he loved me and he would. Finally marry me I was shocked I waited for almost four years to be engaged he knew how much that meant to me and now. That I have a new boyfriend he wants to marry me it was so confusing I kept telling him that he has a lot to work on for himself and so do.