She wants this she said it wasn't some weird fetish that she just wanted me to be satisfied I told her that I couldn't sleep with another woman. She had been asking me to do this for a while now and she even told me that the friend is open if I am which bothers me. That she told her friend about this she really wants me to do this for some odd reason and isn't letting it go I'm tempted to just do. It so I don't have to hear it again but I really don't want to sleep with anyone other than my wife but apparently she's all for me banging a friend. That she is jealous of this is such a strange situation and I'm really at a loss can anyone tell me why she's like this or what.
I should do. Update. I wanted to make sure my feelings came across as clear as possible so I spent some time writing what I planned to say what. I said was wife's name I love you more than anything in this world I don't want anyone except for you I happily swore to you. That I would be yours and yours alone for the rest of our lives that's what I want I don't want to be with your friend. She is nothing compared to what you mean to me I need you to tell me why you are doing this even if it hurts me.
I need to know why no matter what it is we can work through it and it won't make me stop loving you. I just need you to be honest with me I confronted her the night I posted after we both got off work. She started weeping she said she was so sorry for being like this and that she couldn't help it I cried with her and comforted. Her after the teeter stopped she told me why she was doing this unlike many of you said she was not cheating on me in fact. She assumed the opposite would happen eventually she said I was doing this because I'd rather you around with her because she won't try to steal you from me.
I was blown away that she said something like that I asked her why she felt that anyone could ever take me from her she said that since we've been together for 10 years and have only ever. Had sex with each other she thought that eventually I'd get bored of her and want to find someone new to sleep with I told her that I'd never get bored of her and she will be the only. One forever she said that she knows how men are and she was worried that now that we're getting older I'm going to cheat on her with someone younger. She then told me how she feels so unattractive she mentioned that she had been gaining weight which I didn't give a about and how she's not sure if she'll be able to pull off the tricks. She does in bed for the rest of our lives I told her that she is amazing in bed and blows my mind every single time.